Original Playboy Hugh Hefner‘s sex life has been a matter of speculation and dissection, even after his death. While many of his partners came forward to share their experiences on being with Hefner, his widow Crystal opens up on what intimacy was like in their relationship.
Crystal Hefner opens up in her memoir on personal details of their relationship. Here’s why apparently Hugh was ‘bad at sex’.
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Hugh Hefner’s Sex Life
The founder of ‘Playboy’ had a notorious sex life – something that has followed his reputation around even after his death.
Most of his former girlfriends have come forward to talk about their experiences- and something that’s common in all of them is that Hefner wasn’t as amazing in bed as you might expect.
“It was fascinating and kind of structured”, one of these accounts said, “Girls all shower or take a bath. And people sit on his bed. He would smoke a joint, and girls would pop champagne bottles and order food on the bed.What I saw happening in the bedroom wasn’t as raw and intimate as people expect it to be,” she said.
The infamous Shannon twins have also spoken about how on their 19th birthday Hefner expected them to have sex with him.
“On our 19th birthday, he took us to a club. He bought us alcohol even though the age limit is 21″ Kendra said of their first sexual encounter. “Afterward, we were disgusted and would scrub our bodies using hot, hot water and soap until we were red.”
Speaking on a terminated pregnancy she said, “I just wanted to get rid of it as soon as possible. It was like the devil was inside of me. I didn’t want anyone to know I was carrying an 83-year-old man’s child.”
More disturbing details as such has been revealed after his death in 2017. Among others, here’s what his widow Crystal had to say about her sexual experience with Hefner.
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Crystal Hefner Speaks Out On Hugh Hefner
Surprise, surprise, America’s sex icon, apparently, was bad in bed.
His former wife Crystal Hefner opens up in her memoir about how terrible her and everyone else’s sex life was while being with Hefner. She calls it “odd and robotic“.
“This was a well-oiled and well-practiced sequence of events. One that went the same exact way every time,” she writes. “Picking some girls from the party and bringing them up. Changing into the uniform for the job: silk pajamas. The dimming of the lights. The music. The porn. Passing the pot. And then the sex.”
She then writes, “Hef was just going through the motions of something that had once been fun and sexy. Or maybe it was never fun and sexy.”
Hefner apparently never knew how to please another woman. Neither did he care about the sexual needs of his girlfriends.
“I think when you have so much money and power and so many ‘yes people’ around you, you just stick with your own narrative in your mind,” Crystal says. “And then everyone else just goes along with it.”
“There was nothing sexy about it,” she writes. “It was about power and control and leverage. It was a performance. I was auditioning for a part.”
“He seemed less sex-savvy than some of the teenage boys I’d been with years ago,” she writes. ”It was clear to me Hef had never taken a moment in his entire life to figure out how to please someone else.”
The sex stopped in 2014, and Crystal was glad it did. “I was relieved. There was no more bringing girls home, no more performances. For years, I had been keeping up the Playboy charade for Hef, for the public.”
More details about their sex life and marriage life has been revealed in her memoir. You can get it here.
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